If Facebook Shut Down, Would Your World End?

by Hillary Brown on October 24, 2012

Have you ever thought about what would happen if Facebook simply disappeared from the Internet? Would you be relieved or would you be devastated? How much of your real life would cease to exist if your virtual life ceased to exist? Are these are the things that keep you up at night?

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Well, they aren’t for me. To me, the idea of Facebook ceasing to exist is an exciting one. For one, those people from high school who I really don’t have any interest in but am too lazy to defriend would disappear from my world. No more waking up to engagement photos, ultrasound pictures or statuses about a new job or internship. Essentially, all that shameless self-promotion that is made so easy to do on Facebook would end. Ahh what a glorious thing. Some of you are thinking, “What are they waiting for?! Let’s shut it down today!”

But it’s not that simple. As isolating Facebook may seem at times, it has actually done a lot to improve our real-life relationships and expand our networks. Pew Internet Research did a study to try to measure how Facebook has impacted our lives. One of their findings was that, on average, Americans have stronger friendships now than they did four years ago. The study also found that when measuring a person’s network ties (including both online and real life network ties), the average Internet user has about 100 more ties than someone who does not use the Internet. Additionally, they found that while 15% of non-Internet users have no close ties, only 7% of average Internet users report that they have no close ties. But what about the social networking users, you ask. Only 5% of social networking users report having no close ties. 5%! Is it just me or does the fact that Facebook actually make people less isolated blow your mind? This Pew Internet Research study ultimately concludes that “Facebook use seems to support intimacy, rather than undermine it.” The study has also found that Facebook users get more support from their social network than the average Internet user and way more support than a non-Internet user. There you have it: Facebook users are more connected and more supported than those who don’t use Facebook.

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So what does this mean for those of us so annoyed with Facebook that we hardly ever go on it anymore? I think it means that we need to reevaluate how we look at the social networking site. Instead of thinking of it as an annoying self-promotion platform, maybe we should think of it as a place where we can stay connected with the important people in our lives who may live across the continent or across the world. Maybe we need to consider the social support we have received on Facebook and evaluate if that support would have existed in the same capacity without the social networking site. Maybe we need to consider the level at which Facebook connects like-minded people who share common values. As we saw in 2011, Facebook is capable of assisting in the takeover of dictatorships across a whole region. If Facebook didn’t exist, maybe those uprisings would have never occurred and the change we see taking place in that part of the world would not be happening. If Facebook shut down today, I think I would be relieved at first. But then I would realize that without that cross-continental, cross-cultural connection, all the progress we are making as global citizens would come to a screeching halt.

What are your thoughts about Facebook? If it shut down today, would your life be better or would your world end?

  • http://twitter.com/nikkigeffen Nikki Geffen

    I think Facebook is a great way to connect with old friends and family across the world. I have cousins in London and I keep up with their lives through Facebook pictures and posts. I also think it makes keeping in touch with friends a lot easier. I am really bad at picking up the phone and calling friends that don’t live in LA because I am so busy, so catching up on Facebook seems like a go to these days. Though I have recently adopted a love of Twitter…Facebook will always be in my heart :)

  • http://twitter.com/EReidenbach Elizabeth Reidenbach

    Thought-provoking topic, Hillary! I definitely have a love-hate relationship with Facebook, especially the older I get. While I do enjoy the perks of living in an instantaneous digital world, such as re-connecting with extended family members and friends that I have lost touch with over the years, I find that many Facebook users fall into one of two categories: 1) Over-sharers who subsequently over-saturate my news feed, or 2) Isolated individuals who have completely removed themselves from the greater part of society and assume online identities that are in stark contrast to their own. With that being said, I don’t think the next apocalypse will strike if Facebook is completely removed from my left, but it would leave a definite void since most people (myself included) have been so dependent upon it for a variety of purposes, from maintaining long-distance friendships to obtaining new information about people involved in our lives.  

  • Ricky1963

    Like any tool, Facebook can be used for good or bad purposes. While it has greatly enhanced my relationships with local friends and allowed me to reconnect with my best friends from childhood, it also played a key role in destroying my long marriage. I’d miss Facebook if it were gone, but if people won’t control themselves, I wish they would stay off of Facebook.

  • Katie L

    Hilary, I like the way you break down this argument to see the pros and cons. I agree with you- I would be SO happy if Facebook disappeared tomorrow. Facebook is a place where people only post about the amazing things going on in their lives. It makes people compare their lives to others, being completely unaware of the fact that a person could be miserable yet only post the positive things going on on the surface level of their life. I have a friend who posts daily to Facebook about all of the amazing things happening in his life. When I met up with him for coffee recently, he told me about his insecurities and how he’s very unsure about where his life is heading. The Facebook posts don’t match up to the actual situation of his life!
    The ONLY way in which I appreciate Facebook is that it has helped me stay in touch with people I would have surely lost contact with if it weren’t for the site. But in general, I would be happy if Facebook was gone!

  • Jessica Wang

    Haha, I also have a love-hate relationship with Facebook. With it, I am able to keep in touch with friends back home while also reconnect with elementary/high school friends whom I haven’t seen in years. I personally like to share and update my life through photos, so in exchange, I like looking at friends’ photo updates. Yet, sometimes we have more important things to take care of (i.e. writing a paper, studying for a midterm) but we find it really hard to stop ourselves from refreshing our Facebook page because it has gotten so addicting. Bottom line, if Facebook were to shut down today, I would need some time to get used to it, perhaps try to find/adapt to another social media platform to connect with friends?

  • Lorrie

    ” a place where we can stay connected with the important people in our
    lives who may live across the continent or across the world”. In a nutshell.

    There are many things I loath about Facebook, many, many, many things. But, it makes it possible for all the people I love and care about who are scattered across the globe to keep up with what me and mine are doing and what is happening in our lives. Grandparents, god parents, nieces, nephews, cousins, old friends, new friends etc.  Until there is something else, pitched at the non tech user, Facebook it is. :/

  • Mbbecker

    FB is convenient…but if anyone really needs to reach me – they have my number. I’m not 109% dependent on it…

  • Brooke M.

    I think you offer a great perspective here. On the one hand, I agree that Facebook is a huge time waster and it would almost be a relief if it ceased to exist. On the other hand, I appreciate how it allows you to stay in touch with people all over the world–relationships that would certainly be lost (or be much more challenging to keep) without this platform.

  • Molly Russell

    I totally think we are too absorbed in Facebook, but I do think it has a lot of benefits. It really does help me stage in touch and know what is going on with my friends at home in a more visual way than just speaking on the phone. But I also think that Facebook has so much power over our lives to a point where it isn’t healthy. I could give it up for a couple weeks, but honestly not for good.

  • http://twitter.com/lavenusperdida Fernanda Lopez

    Something to think about, definitely!!!  I would also be relieved if Facebook disappeared but only at a short term. I think this platform provides more benefits than disadvantages to all users. I think this would be a great experiment.

  • http://twitter.com/nancychengpr Nancy Cheng

    Seriously I will be really panicked since I don’t know what other people are doing. I’m afraid I might be the only one that’s left out.

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